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[Multiple choice poll] Love (between man and woman) is (by your own experience)...

Asked by xplosive Promote - View in Steemit - Audit

Someone once said "Love is giving someone the power to destroy you, and trusting them not to". I agree with him/her. I once truly, very deeply loved a woman in middle school, I would have done anything for her, but she could not have decide whether she affirm our relationship in public or not, and from one day to another she visibly cheated on me. She kissed a classmate in front of me, but she did not even kissed me. Not even once. She liked me, and she knew that I truly, very deeply love her, furthermore, she was the one, who initiated this whole thing. She came to me after a day, and asked me if I like anyone in the class. I openly/honestly admitted that I like her. I escorted her to the bus stop from the school for months, but she still done this. She either did not loved me enough, or she was just felt embarrased in public by being together with me. Or rather the first, because if you truly love someone, you don't care what others think about it. Or she just wanted to test me. If the latter, then I obviously failed the test. Maybe intentionally. I heard that she expected (probably) me to come to her at the party after the end of the school (I heard something with a half ear), but I did not come to her. I thought I had enough. I was very upset at her behavior and attitude. Maybe I done this right. Maybe we would have married, but divorced later. I do not know. By the way, she dropped that buy at the end of the school (in 2012), and she has been with another guy since then. This was between 2007 and 2012, but I still think about her! I cannot stop thinking about her! I think about her as this whole thing would have happened yesterday, but it was 12 years ago! Probably I will think about her for the rest of my earthly life. So, loving that woman was a HUGE MISTAKE, but unfortunately love is coming from instinct or something like that. The main point is the fact that you cannot control it. You cannot control who you love and for how long. You just meet and love. At least this was/is my case. I met her and I fallen in love with her. And still love her to this day. But I have not met her since 2012, and I doubt that I will ever met her in this earthly life again. I would like to be with her, but I know that I could not. This feeling is very PAINFUL. But there HAS to be some REASON for my deep love towards her, as well as for the chain of events, which happened in my earthly life. I know that there is an afterlife, but many people do not believe in that. I think (or at least hope) that I will get the answers to these questions. What do you think? What is YOUR experience about love? You can select multiple answers.

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Real and true. Without love, breath is just a clock ticking. (16.67%) 3 / 18
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Is an illusion. An insipid thing. Vagary of perception. Temporary construct of a feeble human intellect trying desperately to justify an existence that is without meaning or purpose. (16.67%) 3 / 18
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Nature’s way of tricking people into reproducing. (16.67%) 3 / 18
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This does not even matter in the end, because everything that has a beginning has an end. (16.67%) 3 / 18
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Either a horrible disease or a blessing. (11.11%) 2 / 18
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Is a weakness, which makes you vulnerable/fragile. (5.56%) 1 / 18
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Nature's way of letting you know that even when you’re happy, you can still feel extreme pain. (5.56%) 1 / 18
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Is indescribable. Nobody can define it to its true extent. (5.56%) 1 / 18
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I currently do not have any experience with love, but I feel sorry for you. (5.56%) 1 / 18
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